I Hope You’re Doing Well…

This is my first card under the OBSCMO or OBSCURE MOMENT brand. The inspiration for the card comes from friendships I’ve let deteriorate through neglect.

When I would think about an old friend, I’d reach out, but it always felt performative. The conversations always ended with a “let’s link up soon.” There was no real plan in place to connect, which caused more time to pass.

This card is the first step in reconnecting with those we care about. Whether it's grabbing a coffee or jumping in the ocean, making an effort to express how you feel and following through with plans are how broken relationships are mended.

If you are missing a friend and want to rebuild your relationship, this card is for you.

I HOPE YOU’RE DOING WELL…

“How’s everything going? I was thinking about you today and thought I’d reach out. You were such an important part of my life, and now, we’re lucky if we can connect once a year. I want to change that. Let’s grab a coffee, go to the beach, or take a walk. I’m down for whatever.

Just because we are getting older doesn’t mean we can’t make time, you know? I’ll give you a call, and we’ll get something in the books. I miss you, and I hope you’re doing well.”